Podcast: Real Person | Real Needs

017: Helping Others Beats Helping Yourself…Every Time!

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Real Person | Real Needs
Real Person | Real Needs
017: Helping Others Beats Helping Yourself...Every Time!
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In today’s episode, we discuss the importance of shifting our focus off of our own needs and onto the needs of others. By doing this, we lighten our own burden of stress, worry, and anxiety, and the added benefit is that we are better-equipped to lighten the load of another person.

016: “Restore”ing a Community w/ Marianne Lynch of Habitat for Humanity MontCo

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Real Person | Real Needs
016: "Restore"ing a Community w/ Marianne Lynch of Habitat for Humanity MontCo
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In this very special episode, we welcome our first guest on the podcast – Marianne Lynch, Executive Director of Habitat for Humanity of Montgomery County, PA. Marianne shares the mission and vision for HFH, and also outlines her journey to where she is today and why she is so passionate about what she is doing in her community.

015: “When I Grow Up…” | Apollo 13 | Peter Pan | And A Husky 10 Year Old |

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Real Person | Real Needs
015: "When I Grow Up..." | Apollo 13 | Peter Pan | And A Husky 10 Year Old |
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I often say to people that I am still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. They laugh, I laugh, we laugh together. They tell me I’m funny. I deflect the praise and then graciously accept it in my slyly humble way. But in reality, I am DEAD serious. I truly believe that there should be a healthy bit of Peter Pan in all of us. And no, I don’t mean the brand of peanut butter. I’m allergic to peanut butter so having a little bit of that “Peter Pan” in me would have my wife racing for my EpiPen®. I’m talking about the boy who could fly and refused to grow up. I don’t mean we should be immature, but we should be willing to look up at the moon and think that we could one day walk on the face of it.

014: Preparing for the Journey- Taking the Necessary Steps to be Ready for the “Next Step”

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014: Preparing for the Journey- Taking the Necessary Steps to be Ready for the "Next Step"
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In this episode, we discuss how the next step in our journey may not be the final landing spot, but we still need to prepare ourselves for what we can learn and apply so that we are better prepared when the next opportunity comes along. With each step forward and each lesson learned, we are becoming better-equipped to do what we’ve been created to do when the time comes.

013: How to Jump-start the “Next Chapter” of Your Life

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Real Person | Real Needs
013: How to Jump-start the "Next Chapter" of Your Life
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In this episode, I discuss how silencing the noise around us and curling up with a good book (or three) can help you reclaim your sanity and jump-start the “next chapter” of your life.

012: When You Dare to be Different, the Critics Will Come

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012: When You Dare to be Different, the Critics Will Come
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“To avoid criticism say nothing, do nothing, be nothing.” ― Aristotle In my short time in Real Estate I have seen a lot of people who do things the same way that they have always been done. Mainly, because that is what they have been taught from the time they got their license by coaches …

011: Finding Your Purpose Means Living With Purpose

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011: Finding Your Purpose Means Living With Purpose
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We often romanticize what it means to “Find Your Purpose” as though it were something you can only hope to achieve in the unseen future. Unfortunately having this perspective often paralyzes us and leads us into hopelessness. It is better that we begin living with purpose in the everyday rather than daydream about some mystical “purpose” we’ve yet to grasp. Live deliberately, live intentionally. It is when we identify the purpose of the mundane that we are better equipped when we finally realize our dream. The long road to purpose and meaning can only be trod with purposeful steps.

010: Running Your Race Well | Rethinking Retirement

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010: Running Your Race Well | Rethinking Retirement
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Peyton Manning’s career has been the focus of much media attention of late. Specifically whether or not he will decide to hang up his cleats now that he has won his second Super Bowl. In thinking about the fortunate position Manning finds himself, I am reminded that we also should be striving to “go out on top.” Life is not just about arriving safely at death. We should not be counting down the years ’til we can live the good life in Florida. We should be using each day to position ourselves to the most good in the twilight of our life. I have been challenged to rethink the idea of “retirement” and look at how I invest now so that my final years on this earth are some of my most effective in changing the world.

009: Tackling the 900lb. Gorilla of Self-Doubt

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009: Tackling the 900lb. Gorilla of Self-Doubt
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“Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.” ― Suzy Kassem In the world of sales, you are always taught various ways to overcome objections. But what if the objections that are impeding your progress are coming from within yourself? In this episode, I delve into the topic of overcoming our own objections to doing big …

008: What Do I Mean by “REAL NEEDS?”

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008: What Do I Mean by "REAL NEEDS?"
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In this episode, I follow up on the previous episode by talking about what is meant by “Real Needs.” My business is just a platform for my message. That message is to build a community, a movement that is committed to putting other people’s needs ahead of our own. Whether it’s by donating funds to …

007: What Do I Mean by “REAL PERSON?”

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007: What Do I Mean by "REAL PERSON?"
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In this episode, I vamp on the idea of putting the REAL in real person. Authenticity and truth are your greatest weapon and your strongest attribute when trying to differentiate yourself from the competition. But forced authenticity is the exact opposite of authenticity. Be Yourself and live with the consequences. I’d rather be myself and sleep at night, than be what other people perceive as the model of success and professionalism.

006: Knowing Where You Came From to Get to Where You Are Going

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006: Knowing Where You Came From to Get to Where You Are Going
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“Know from whence you came. If you know whence you came, there are absolutely no limitations to where you can go.” – James Baldwin

As we enter a new year, it is tempting to put the previous one in the rear-view mirror and never look back. In this episode, I discuss how it important that we not forget the journey that has brought us to where we are. In many ways, it can be our compass for the road ahead.

005: The Two Most Important Days in a Person’s Life

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005: The Two Most Important Days in a Person's Life
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“The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why.”
― Mark Twain

In this quick little episode (recorded on my birthday), I take a look at this profound quote and meditate on how another year passed means another chance to put the life lessons learned into practice. At this time last year, I was about to jump into the unknown with both feet. And I am so glad that I did. This last year brought me face to face with some of the biggest challenges of my life, but it also brought out both flaws in my character that needed to be addressed, and courage that I didn’t know I possessed. Ask yourself today, why was I born? If you don’t know the answer to that question, then stop chasing every other vain pursuit in life (money, relationships, fame, etc.) and start the hunt of your life. The hunt for purpose.

004: “MOVING IS THE WORST!” (and other things you never thought a Realtor would say)

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Real Person | Real Needs
004: “MOVING IS THE WORST!” (and other things you never thought a Realtor would say)
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So I decided to let you in on a little secret. Something I shouldn’t tell you as someone who makes a living helping people buy/sell houses.

MOVING IS THE WORST!

My family and I just moved a few weeks ago. So what? Big Deal. Everybody moves. New Beginnings. New Seasons. Blah blah blah old cliche after old cliche.

But the truth is, Moving sucks.

Especially when your move is not YOUR move.

What do I mean by that? I mean, when it is ultimately brought on by circumstances beyond your control. Moving has always been hard but typically the emotional and psychological pain is dulled by the excitement of moving on to bigger and better things.

This move has had a profound effect on me. It has caused me to really take a hard look at my life and career…

003: Stop Thinking About What People Are Thinking About You

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Real Person | Real Needs
003: Stop Thinking About What People Are Thinking About You
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How much of our behavior is dictated by the opinions of others? In this episode, Geoff talks about breaking free from the shackles of seeking man’s approval, and living according to our unique design and purpose.

002: The Formidable Foe that is the Fear of Failure

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Real Person | Real Needs
002: The Formidable Foe that is the Fear of Failure
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As humans, we often live in a perpetual state of fear. Unfortunately, we allow this fear to cripple us rather than motivate us. We shield ourselves from failure and remain ignorant rather than embracing it and moving forward with a backpack full of lessons learned. In this episode, Geoff talks about his fears and shares his thoughts on how people should use fear as a catalyst rather than a crutch.

001: Why I walked away from a steady pay-check

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001: Why I walked away from a steady pay-check
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I wanted to give you a glimpse into my life and work experiences so that you have an idea as to why I decided to forego the comfort and peace of mind of a steady, albeit average, paycheck, to start my own business. In other words, I want to take you inside the mind of a crazy person. I mean seriously, what drives someone to that level of insanity? Going from getting paid every two weeks like clockwork to bungee-jumping without a cord?
Well, I’ll tell you…and hopefully, you will be able to relate to me and my story when you’ve finished listening…

Real Person | Real Needs – Introduction

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Real Person | Real Needs
Real Person | Real Needs - Introduction
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Ever since I started in this industry I have been told that the way business is done in the world of real estate is to basically pester people until they finally either, (1) duck into dark alleys at the very sight of you as to avoid another sales pitch, or (2) concede and decide to work with you. …